Have you seen that episode of ‘The Big Bang Theory’ where the characters (scientists) are to give a talk to middle school girls about science? One of the scientists (Sheldon), to spark their interest in the subject, thinks it’s wise to get himself prepared for that lecture by searching “How do I get 12-year-old girls excited”. Thankfully he is promptly stopped by his friends. You can see how that search could backfire right…? How to Block Explicit Content on Searches Every search engine is a machine. It can easily misinterpret that innocent search to bring out sensitive, illegal or adult results. Which is where the real problem lies. Your child might have heard an unfamiliar word […]
Read MoreSure, the horrors of the holocaust do not compare with the body image, sexual, alcohol and drug use struggles faced by today’s teens and tweens. But psychologists argue that both situations result when ordinary people are under extraordinary pressure to conform to the norm. In fact, nowadays, this pressure doesn’t need to be extraordinary. Any pressure whatsoever would drive a specific conforming behaviour. Peer pressure arises from our deep-rooted human need to conform. It is not something kids suddenly learn in teenage years, but rather an innate evolutionary trait that is present from infancy. When a child falls down, he looks up to the parents to gauge whether or not to cry. If mom reacts in fear, […]
Read MoreHave you ever caught your 3-year-old touching his/her genitals during diaper changes or even in public? How about inspecting another child’s… uh… ‘Anatomy’? ? Well, it turns out the behaviour is normal according to a study which shows that a toddler’s penis can actually get erect. Humans are highly sexual beings, even from the early stages of development. One of the founding fathers of psychology – Sigmund Freud – posed that from birth to age 6 children experience a series of phases of sexual development. The Oral (0 – 1 year), the Anal (1 – 3 years) and Phallic/genital (3 – 6 years) stages of development, where sexual gratification comes from the mouth and putting objects in […]
Read MoreThe debate about the type of sex education to give is an age long one. When we were young, many of us were taught using the abstinence-only approach. As we can confirm, it wasn’t the most effective approach. In an online poll, 89% of the population (parents) confirmed that the abstinence-only approach is ineffective. Okay, let’s analyse both approaches: Abstinence-Only Approach Abstinence-only sex education is a method of sex ed whose basic idea is ‘not having sex outside of marriage’. It very frequently omits other vital parts of sexual and reproductive health education, such as contraceptives and safe sex. Research does not support its effectiveness. It has also been discovered to be ineffective in reducing HIV […]
Read MoreThere is a lot of debate as to whether or not we can teach sex education to children less than 6 years old, which topics such an education would include, and at what age it should start. But in recent times, with the increase in child molestation and rape cases, parents are beginning to agree that sex education has to be done earlier than before. This revelation can make you wonder if there are other ideas you held about sex education that are wrong. Some misconceptions about sex education are: 1. You have to wait until kids are older. Wrong! The concept of sexuality is usually attributed to adolescence and kept separate from childhood. However, unlike a can […]
Read MoreThe internet is still arguably the greatest invention of the 21st century. However, it also gives everyone -adults and children alike – easy access to anything across the globe: even sensitive information and adult content. The most troubling part of this discovery is that, while all this is true, your child may not be looking for such content to stumble unto it. Luckily, there are some ways to protect children from inappropriate online content through their mobile devices. Here’s how: On iPhone or iPad (IOS) Open the iPhone or iPad’s settings. ‘Settings’ is a grey app whose icon is a gear ⚙️ Scroll until you locate the ‘general’ tab, tap on it. Scroll and tap on ‘restrictions’. […]
Read MoreHave you seen that episode of ‘The Big Bang Theory’ where the characters (scientists) are to give a talk to […]
Sure, the horrors of the holocaust do not compare with the body image, sexual, alcohol and drug use struggles faced […]
Have you ever caught your 3-year-old touching his/her genitals during diaper changes or even in public? How about inspecting another […]
The debate about the type of sex education to give is an age long one. When we were young, many […]
There is a lot of debate as to whether or not we can teach sex education to children less than […]
The internet is still arguably the greatest invention of the 21st century. However, it also gives everyone -adults and children […]